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Dear Readers: I LOVE READING YOUR EMAIL!!!! SO, if you'd like to say something about this website, the Email of the Week column or have a different Jewish issue/question on your mind please send it in. I am always looking for emails for future columns and a book I am writing (you will remain anonymous, of course). So, please email me at GilMann@BeingJewish.org just click on the blue letters. I look forward to your emails! 

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Dear Readers,

These columns began on my area of America Online, called:  Judaism Today:  Where Do I Fit?   People anonymously sent me E-Mail, and I began to choose one for a public response in my Jewish E-Mail of the Week column. The column has become quite popular and is now syndicated internationally in many Jewish papers and websites.  I hope you find they help you as you think about the Ethics, Spirituality and Peoplehood components of the Jewish way of Life.  I welcome your comments... see the end of the column.

Gil

PS  Teachers and others, feel free to copy my columns and forward them or use them as you see fit.  Please see the friendly copyright notice at the end.

Do Jews Have Religious Freedom in Israel?

 

Dear Gil:

I liked your last column explaining Zionism. Only one caveat -- Israel doesn't exactly have freedom of religion.

The Orthodox have religious hegemony over the state. Interfaith couples can't even get legally married unless they go for a ceremony outside of the country. A teenage Jewish boy who died had his corpse transported from one cemetery to another because his parents were not Jewish according to Jewish Law (they each had a non-Jewish mother), and the Orthodox control the cemeteries.

Also, only recently, the Israeli Supreme Court had to intervene on behalf of Conservative and Reform rabbis to get them some legal recognition in Israel.

I believe it would be OK if we leveled with people like that young woman. She would respect your realism.

Your Fond Devil's Advocate,

G

Dear G:

First, a brief recap:  My last column was a response to a Christian woman with questions about Zionism.  I explained that Zionism is the movement to support a Jewish homeland and that other religions are freely practiced in Israel.

How ironic that you should point out that freedom of religion is an issue for Jews in Israel. The examples you cite are difficult and complicated, but I would not argue with you.  Further, I think you are correct, honestly acknowledging the problems you describe is proper.

I debated whether to bring up this divisive issue in the last column and today, while Israel is in crisis.  She now needs our undivided support.  Precisely because Israel needs our support, I have decided I should publicly air the problems you describe.

This is why: we Jews have always argued amongst ourselves and have had serious divisions.  You will see examples of this through out our history, going all the way back to the Bible.  The Jewish people are family and families argue. 

The debate of defining Judaism and who is a Jew has been contentious since the State of Israel was established.  These issues are far from resolved.  Still progress is being made and non-Orthodox Jewish streams are slowly but surely being heard. Most Israelis are not Orthodox so I can assure you; this is a debate that will continue to be argued long and hard in Israeli homes, institutions and courts.

BUT, when family is threatened, that is the time to close ranks and put our differences aside.  This is exactly what Israelis and Jews everywhere are doing now and why I have decided to feature your email this week.  This is not a time to be picking on ourselves.  We have plenty of enemies who need no help from us!  Suicide bombers do not care about Jewish parents or what synagogue their victims attended or did not attend.  Their only concern about cemeteries is to put as many Jews as possible in them!

After selecting your email, and apropos of what I just wrote, I received an announcement that the UJC (United Jewish Communities -- the former UJA) has brought the four movements of Judaism (Orthodox, Conservative, Reform and Reconstructionist) together for an emergency appeal to raise funds for Israel. Over $120 million has been raised so far.

Of equal import is the raising of consciousness that we must be united now. I could quote all of the heads of all the movements who gave moving statements in support of the effort.  But I have decided to quote Rabbi Eric Yoffee head of the Reform Movement because they have had perhaps the most uphill battle for recognition in Israel.  In spite of that, here is what he said:

"To the people of Israel we say, 'You are not alone. The Jewish people is a single people, interdependent in every way, rooted in covenant and history and we stand with you.'  And to the terrorists we say, 'We Jews are a diverse people. We have diverse political views. But understand that as long as the weapon you use is terror, as long as the language you use is anti-Semitic, as long as you fail to accept Israel's right to live in peace and security, as long as you fail to honor the fundamental values upon which all major religious traditions rest, we stand as one in the battle to defeat you."

He is right.  We all need to stand shoulder to shoulder with each other and with Israel.  In that light, I would encourage people to contribute by contacting your local Federation, calling 800-966-4852 or sending a check payable to UJC Israel Appeal  to United Jewish Communities,  PO Box 30, Old Chelsea Station, New York, NY 10113.  For more ways to help Israel go to:  www.ujc.org/content_display.html?ArticleID=37977

The issues you raise in your letter require respectful debate. When we return to more peaceful times (hopefully soon) we can afford to again argue amongst ourselves to find compromises and solutions.  May the spirit of unity that now moves us to stand by Israel, remain with us, so next, we sit with each other and work out our religious differences.

Thank you for writing!
Gil


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Ask Gil
Dear Readers: I LOVE READING YOUR EMAIL!!!! SO, if you'd like to say something about this website, the Email of the Week column or have a different Jewish issue/question on your mind please send it in. I am always looking for emails for future columns and a book I am writing (you will remain anonymous, of course). So, please email me at GilMann@BeingJewish.org just click on the blue letters. I look forward to your emails! 

Thanks,
Gil

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